Letting go ……
Time and time again, we come to a point in our romantic life that we would encounter a situation which would lead us to decide to let go of the person you love and have loved. People who go through this would ask themselves “Do I have to let go? How do I let go of him or her?”. When you get yourself into such a conundrum, your objectivity gets clouded by your emotions and sometimes hatred. Hatred is protracted result of misgivings, dishonesty, impertinence among others.
Of all the things that you may think of as a way to induce yourself to letting go and getting over that emotional hump, maybe loving again would suffice…………..
Surround yourself with love. Though this may seem to you the most impossible emotion to experience in the first stages following a separation, it is to become your course of action when you realize that love is the key to your control of self and to the door that is opening toward your new reality. Love is what brought you into your relationship and love is the power that will lead you to the meaningful resolution of your situation.
This decision to love must first take effect with reference to yourself and to the person from whom you are separating. You must love yourself for those qualities which brought you into the realm of that other person: your willingness to give of yourself and to take the risk of being hurt. And to love the other person in spite of the pain you are feeling is to allow that person the same freedom you will both need in order to move on. Love is a force that renews us and prepares us for tomorrow. Hatred is a shackle that keeps us tied to the past.
So drop the damn thing!!!
The one from whom you have separated will not soon be forgotten, though great distances may separate the two of you. Give the memory of that person the chance to help you by insisting on remembering the beautiful experiences that united you. The painful ones which separated you will need no coaxing from the memory. Turn your anger into love. Take the qualities you found in the other person and develop them in yourself, use them as a way of better experiencing your love for all the others who are important in your
